9 Life-transforming Questions You Should Answer to Make 2018 Your Best Year

Make 2018 your best year.

“The art and science of asking questions is the source of all knowledge.” –Thomas Berger

While I was thinking about what next to publish on this blog, I browsed through my note books for ideas, most of the topics I saw in my note didn’t seem timely for me. Then I picked a note I haven’t checked, flipped through the pages, there I saw some questions I wrote down some times ago. On seeing it, I shouted eureka (I have found it) just as Archimedes did.

Overcoming the Nice Guy Syndrome

The nice guy syndrome

Are you familiar with the term nice guy syndrome? There are some subtle things in life that we think are normal but are not. Whatever you don’t know can harm you. What you don’t know is more powerful than you.

What Are You Doing Today?


“The courage to walk a thousand miles comes from taking the first step.”-

 In our world of matter, time exist in three dimensions, past, present and future. In a simpler form we can refer to these three dimensions as yesterday, today and tomorrow. For each of us, behind the point we are right now in our life journey was a past, and ahead of us is a future.

Are You on the Verge of Giving up?

Don't give up

Do you feel you have got enough disappointment and failure and on the verge of giving up on life? Have you gotten to that point in your life when the future seems so uncertain that you no longer see any reason why should continue to live? Have you been depressed for a very long time over the unpleasant experiences life has thrown at you?

Accept the Mortality of your Existence


“Right from the day you were born, you are too old to die”-Anonymous

I am a strong believer of the idea that the earth is a school, life is a teacher, and experiences are the content of our lessons.

3 Vital Things to Consider when Trying to Help Someone

Helping people

“Do unto others as they would want done unto them.”--- Dave Kerpen’s Platinum rule

At the sight of the title of this article, you would probably ask, do I really need to consider anything before rendering help to someone? I expect such surprise. One thing you should know is that helping people is not as easy as it seems. There are things you must put into consideration before you go ahead to render help to anyone.

Living Today with Tomorrow in Mind

Planning for tomorrow

Recently, I spoke to a group of young people on the above topic. The idea in this post is not limited to only young people, it applies to anyone who still desire or seek  a better life.

4 Ways to Deal with Extreme Sadness

How to deal with sadness

Have you ever considered any possible way of dealing with sadness? No matter how enthusiastic and happy you are naturally, you will definitely experience some moments of sadness in your life, and for this reason, it is critical to learn how to deal with sadness.

5 Reasons You Should Stop Worrying

Reasons to stop worrying.

What are your reasons for worrying?  Do you think they worth it?

Worry, according to Cambridge Dictionary means, “to think about problem or unpleasant things that might happen in such a way that makes you feel unhappy and frightened.”

Why Your Life is Not the Way You Want It To Be

Why your life is not the way you want it to be.

If your life is to be perfect, how will your life look like? What would be your career, how will your financial life be, what religion would you adopt? These and many other questions I presented in the chapter one of my winning paradigm for tough times: a practical guide to overcoming the obstacle to success.